Confront the Reality

There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking make it so.

William Shakespeare 

In life, you tend to cling things to be a in a certain way or that even though they are not based on reality. 

For example, in romantic relationships, the feeling of the beginning of the relationship will not last forever. The feeling of any kinds will left to this way or that.

Another reality is that women do not love you who you are, but they will love you because it is beneficial to them. 

There may be a woman who love you as who you are, no matter what happens in your life. It is one of the most beautiful things in life. It is to love others as who they are no matter what happens to the other.

However, basically, people will like you because it is beneficial to them.

People want power, and control in their life, and reproduction. It is deeply input in our brain including myself.

This is a part of human nature. There is nothing wrong with that.

First, to live

second, to get power 

third, to reproduce 

most of human actions are based on these goals.

we cannot complain about this. we have to accept the reality and how to interact with it. There are things outside of our control.

One of the benefits of confronting the reality is that we know the exact map of the reality and think about how to deal wit that.

One of the action is just to accept it and surrender because it is not our control.

I think no one complains about rain when it is raining. Maybe, someone may complain though. 

Yeah, we can complain to the rain, but you will just be frustrated because it is not things in our control.

The life, what is, is constantly changing like waving ocean and you cannot control the life.

One of the my goal of the life is to interact with nature and rewrite my map on reality, and share it with others.

Just live life as you wanted to live, and be with those I wanna be with.