Face the reality, not what we want to believe.

When I was a high school student, I read the book "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.", Which changed my life. The author, Steven R.Covey, taught me very important lessons to be a effective person, and live effectively. 

Habit1: Be proactive

Habit2: Begin with an end in mind 

Habit3: Put first things first

Habit4: Think win-win

Habit5: Seek first to understand and then to be understood

Habit6: Synergize 

Habit7: Sharpen the saw 

These ideas are based on the reality, and very useful to be independent and have good relationships with others. I need to study the book over and over again to master it. It is really valuable. What he is saying is good and fine, and I viewed the life full of hope. 

Then, I started to read Robert Greene.